Showing posts with label Nonfiction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nonfiction. Show all posts

Thursday, April 16, 2026

5 Books that Made Me Cancel Everything








20 years recommending books. These 5 made me cancel everything else.


I am not a fast reader. Never have been. But every once in a while a book comes along that just locks you in and won’t let go. These five did exactly that.


Alias Emma by Ava Glass — a British spy has 12 hours to get her asset across London while Russia watches every camera in the city. The whole book is one long chase scene and I was out of breath the entire time.


Lucky by Marissa Stapley — a con artist on the run wins the lottery but can’t cash the ticket without getting arrested. It sounds like a movie because it’s becoming one. Anya Taylor-Joy. Apple TV+. This summer. Read it first.


The Witch’s Orchard by Archer Sullivan — three little girls went missing from an Appalachian town ten years ago. One came back. Two didn’t. A PI heads into the mountains to find out what happened. Atmospheric, unsettling, and I did not guess the ending.


Family of Spies by Christine Kuehn — the author got a letter from a screenwriter asking about her family’s role in WWII. Her father wept when she asked him about it. Her grandparents were Nazi spies who helped plan Pearl Harbor. This is nonfiction. 


Worst Case Scenario by T.J. Newman — a nuclear power plant. A dam. Real time. That’s all I’ll say.


Five completely different books. One thing in common — I didn’t put any of them down.


Which one are you adding to your TBR?


Looking for more recommendations? Try 5 Backlist Thrillers that Deserve a Second Chance.



 

Thursday, November 20, 2025

Family of Spies

 


What if the biggest secret in your family’s past rewrote history?


In Family of Spies, Christine Kuehn spent 30 years uncovering the shocking truth about her paternal grandparents and aunt. They were Nazi spies who helped Japan in the lead-up to and the bombing of Pearl Harbor. It’s a chilling, real-life story that unfolds with the tension of a thriller and the heartbreak of discovery.


This engrossing account follows Kuehn’s decades-long search for answers after an unexpected ledger from a screenwriter revealed a closely guarded family secret. Her father had always been evasive about his childhood in Germany and then Hawaii. He never shared stories about his parents, sister, or brother. Determined to uncover the truth, Kuehn combed through the National Archives, books, and online databases to piece together her family’s dark history.


Kuehn’s writing is crisp, and she’s refreshingly honest about wrestling with her emotions along the way. Superbly narrated by Erin Bennett, this audiobook completely pulled me into a tragic and fascinating slice of history. This is must read for history lovers. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


Thanks to Macmillan Audio for the early listen. Family of Spies publishes November 25!


What’s a nonfiction book that gripped you like a thriller?


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About the Author

Christine Kuehn was cocooned in the sanctity of a quiet suburban life when a mysterious letter in 1994 pierced that bubble, sending her on a thirty-year quest to discover the truth behind a horrendous family secret kept hidden for half a century. Following a career in journalism, public relations, and nonprofits, Christine now lives in Maryland with her husband, close to their three grown children.

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Tigers Between Empires

 



Out today! Tigers Between Empires by Jonathan C. Slaght. Thanks Macmillan Audio for the #gifted alc! This book follows the founding of the Siberian Tiger Project after the collapse of the Soviet Union and its efforts to save the big cats who roam the Amur River Basin. Led by Dale Miquelle and Zhenya Smirnov, the group spent over 30 years working to protect and save the elusive tigers and their habitat. They captured, collared, and released over 114 tigers, observing and studying their movements, how they hunt, mating rituals, and how mother tigers raise their cubs.


This is an amazing story of the dedication and perseverance of the researchers, scientists, and veterinarians who worked for the project. They battled bureaucracy, harsh weather, brutal terrain, and poachers in an effort to save the species from the brink of extinction. This is riveting story pulled me right in and didn’t let go. Slaght, who also narrates the audiobook, crafts a fascinating story. He writes with a deep caring for the people and the animals. I became really invested in the lives of Dale and his coworkers and especially the lives of the tigers. I learned a lot of the tigers, their territory which lies along the border of Russia and China, and the hardships the dedicated professionals of the project dealt with. Although Siberian tigers, also known as Amur tigers, are apex predators, their lives and ecosystems are extremely fragile. I highly recommend this book to anyone who loves animals, is interested in animal conservation, or who’s looking for a an absorbing and unforgettable story of success against all odds. This is a great choice if you’re looking for a Nonfiction November read. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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About the Author

Jonathan C. Slaght is the author of Owls of the Eastern Ice, which won the PEN/E. O. Wilson Literary Science Writing Award and the Minnesota Book Award for General Nonfiction and was long-listed for the National Book Award. He is the regional director of the Wildlife Conservation Society’s Temperate Asia Program, where he oversees strategic conservation planning in China, Mongolia, Afghanistan, Russia, and Central Asia. He published an annotated translation of Across the Ussuri Kray by Vladimir Arsenyev and cotranslated Winter Ecology of the Amur Tiger by A. G. Yudakov and I. G. Nikolaev. His work has been featured in The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Guardian, and Scientific American, and on the BBC and NPR. He lives in Minneapolis.

Monday, July 28, 2025

On Her Game:

 
Author: Christine Brennan
Narrator: Christine Brennan
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio
Year: 2025

Thank you Simon & Schuster Audio for the gifted book! Appreciate it! 


Every generation, an athlete comes along and captures the nation’s attention. Think Michael Jordan or Tiger Woods. Now it’s Caitlin Clark’s turn. Sportswriter Christine Brennan examines the phenomenon that is Caitlin Clark and her impact on women’s sports in her book On Her Game. Brennan looks at how the 1972 passage of Title IX, the landmark legislation that opened up opportunities for girls and women to play sports, impacted Clark’s growth as an athlete and the growth of women’s sports. She covers Clark’s college career at Iowa and her rookie year in the WNBA. She also looks at racial issues in a league where approximately 64% of the players are Black. 


 Brennan has had a long and distinguished career as a sportswriter. She knows her stuff. She doesn’t shy away from controversy. She talks about the criticism she received last year from some WNBA players who thought she asked racially insensitive questions during a press conference. Brennan also notes how the WNBA was unprepared for the Caitlin Clark effect. She discusses  USA Basketball’s decision to not choose Clark to be part of the 2024  Olympic team. While the women’s team went on to win an unprecedented 6th straight gold medal, they didn’t get wide spread media attention. 


I’ve been a long time women’s college basketball fan. I’ll be transparent here and say I’m a Clark fan. I went to one of her games her senior year in college and again during her rookie WNBA year. Clark has always been generous with her time with the press. Brennan clearly did her research for this book, but I wish Clark had sat down with Brennan for an interview specifically for this book. I enjoyed this book. Brennan’s knowledge of the game and her insights make this a must read for sports fans. 


About the Author

Christine Brennan is an award-winning national sports columnist for USA TODAY; a commentator for ABC, CNN, and PBS NewsHour; and the bestselling author of Inside Edge, named one of the top 100 sports books of all time by Sports Illustrated. She has been selected as one of the country’s top ten sports columnists multiple times by the Associated Press Sports Editors and has covered the last twenty-one Olympic Games, summer and winter. A trailblazer, she was the first woman sportswriter at The Miami Herald, the first woman to cover Washington’s NFL team for The Washington Post, and the first president of the Association for Women in Sports Media.


Monday, June 30, 2025

Into the Magic Shop

 
Author: Dr. James Doty
Publisher: Avery
Year: 2016


How is this the last day of June already? My book club read Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon’s Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart by Dr. James Doty this month. We met last night to discuss the book. Here’s the full summary: 


“Growing up in the high desert of California, Jim Doty was poor, with an alcoholic father and a mother chronically depressed and paralyzed by a stroke. Today he is the director of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE) at Stanford University, of which the Dalai Lama is a founding benefactor. But back then his life was at a dead end until at twelve he wandered into a magic shop looking for a plastic thumb. Instead he met Ruth, a woman who taught him a series of exercises to ease his own suffering and manifest his greatest desires. Her final mandate was that he keep his heart open and teach these techniques to others. She gave him his first glimpse of the unique relationship between the brain and the heart.


Doty would go on to put Ruth’s practices to work with extraordinary results—power and wealth that he could only imagine as a twelve-year-old, riding his orange Sting-Ray bike. But he neglects Ruth’s most important lesson, to keep his heart open, with disastrous results—until he has the opportunity to make a spectacular charitable contribution that will virtually ruin him. 


Part memoir, part science, part inspiration, and part practical instruction, Into the Magic Shop shows us how we can fundamentally change our lives by first changing our brains and our hearts.”


Overall, everyone liked the book. I was the only outlier who thought his story about spending a summer learning meditation at age 12 seemed a little exaggerated. But I tend to be skeptical at times. While Doty does touch on some science, I thought there’d be more of it. It’s mostly about how he learned to control his emotions, meditation, mindfulness, intention and visualization. He learned the techniques from a woman named Ruth. Her lessons helped him achieve his goals of becoming a doctor and becoming very wealthy. It wasn’t until he lost his money when the dot com bubble burst in 2008 that he finally learned Ruth’s final lesson of opening your heart. He finally learns true compassion. He then delves into the science of how the brain and heart work together to make us happier, healthier, kinder, and more loving.


The book is a mix of autobiography, science, and self help. I found is writing could be repetitive at times and some parts sounded like he was humble bragging. But it’s definitely an inspirational story of a poor and directionless boy who becomes a respected and wildly successful physician. Doty provides instructional tips for calming the mind, meditation, visualization, and opening the heart to be more compassionate. It’s a good reminder to unplug, slow down, breathe, and try to open our hearts even if it’s only for a few minutes a day. 


Do you practice meditation or what do you do to for self care? 


About the Author

Jim Doty is a Stanford neurosurgeon, neuroscientist, compassion researcher, inventor, entrepreneur, NY Times bestselling author and philanthropist.

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Food for Thought

 
Author: Alton Brown
Narrator: Alton Brown
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio
Year: 2025


To be perfectly honest, I never watched any of Alton Brown’s shows. I had a vague awareness of him being in the food entertainment industry from some commercials he’s done. So I didn’t know what exactly to expect going into his latest book Food for Thought. What I found were very entertaining and thoughtful essays of his personal life, relationship with food, and career. 


He touches on subjects from his career, to culinary cultural appropriation, his childhood, culinary school, his television career, and cooking the perfect roast chicken. His story about making s’mores when his aunt visited when he was a kid and using some of her “chocolate” had me laughing hysterically. 


Brown is a wonderful storyteller. He’s witty, charming, and sarcastic. I really enjoyed his self deprecating humor. His narration for this audiobook is excellent. This is a great choice if you’re looking for a palate cleanser book. It’s short, flavorful, and very satisfying. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


Many thanks to Simon & Schuster Audio for the complimentary audiobook! 


Do you like to cook? Can you just throw ingredients together and create something delicious or do you have to follow the recipe exactly as is? 


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About the Author

Alton Brown was directing TV commercials when he got the crazy idea to go to culinary school and reinvent the cooking show. The result was Good Eats, an irreverent, science-forward program that led to Brown working on the Food Network for over twenty years. His live culinary variety shows have toured to hundreds of sold-out crowds across the country since 2013. He is also the winner of a Peabody Award and two James Beard Awards. He lives in Atlanta with his wife, the designer Elizabeth Ingram, and three nefarious canines.

Monday, March 10, 2025

The Year of Living Constitutionally

 
Author: A.J. Jacobs
Narrator: A.J. Jacobs
Publisher: Penguin Random House Audio
Year: 2024


My book club’s choice this month is A.J. Jabcobs’ The Year of Living Constitutionally. He writes about his year long quest to follow the Constitution‘s original meaning. This is a fascinating, educational, and often humorous dive into one guy’s attempt to get into the mindset of the 18th century foundering fathers and how the document should be interpreted today. 


Some of his attempts to live as closely to the original meaning of the Constitution included asserting his right to free speech by writing his opinions on parchment paper with a quill & ink and then handing out them out to strangers on the street. He used beeswax candles at home in place of lights. He exercised his Article I right by writing to Congress to request a letter of marque to become a privateer (which is kind of a government sanctioned pirate). He bought a tricorn hat & joined a Revolutionary War reenactment group. He also consulted with scholars, lawyers, and historians about the Constitution and read a mountain of books and documents about the Constitution. He discusses the disagreements the founders had when writing it and their compromises. He looks at the question of how the Constitution should be interpreted today-as it was originally written or as a living document whose interpretation should change with the times. Thomas Jefferson thought the Constitution should be rewritten every few years. Jacobs also notes how difficult it is to change the Constitution. Jacobs breaks down the heady thoughts and 18th century language and makes it more accessible for today’s readers. Jacobs narrates the audiobook himself and he’s very funny. 


I think I learned more about the Constitution from this book than I learned in school. No matter what side of the aisle you sit on or if you’re just trying to make sense of current events in America, I highly recommend this book. It’s definitely thought provoking, fascinating, informative, and inspiring. 


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About the Author 

A.J. Jacobs is an author, journalist, lecturer and human guinea pig. He has written four New York Times bestsellers that combine memoir, science, humor and a dash of self-help. Among his books are The Know-It-All, The Year of Living Biblically, and Thanks a Thousand, in which he travels the globe to thank everyone who had even the slightest role in making his morning cup of coffee. He is a contributor to NPR, The New York Times, and Esquire, among others. He has given several TED talks, including ones about living biblically, creating a one-world family, and living healthily that have amassed over 10 million views.


Thursday, December 12, 2024

What I Ate in One Year

 

Author: Stanley Tucci

Narrator: Stanley Tucci

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio

Year: 2024

Thank you Simon & Schuster Audio for the gifted audiobook! 

Actor and foodie Stanley Tucci takes readers on a delicious journey of what he ate almost every day in 2023. Mr. Tucci narrates his audiobook and it’s wonderful. I loved his dry wit. I also loved the descriptions of the food he ate in restaurants around the world and what cooked at home for his family and friends. If I ever win the lottery I’m going to Italy to eat at all the restaurants he discusses in this book. His love of cooking comes from his parents and he even provides several recipes throughout the book. He also provides a peek at his busy life as an actor, philanthropist, and husband and father. The chapters are short diary entries and his narration is extremely entertaining. Even if you don’t like cooking, the way he describes fresh ingredients and excellent, but simple meals will have your mouth watering. Mangiare!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

QOTD: what’s your favorite dish? 
I love pizza and pasta and meatballs.

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Thursday, July 4, 2024

In My Time of Dying

 

Author: Sebastian Junger

Narrator: Sebastian Junger

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio

Year: 2024

🎧𝗔𝘂𝗱𝗶𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗥𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄🎧

Thank you @simon.audio for the gifted audiobook! 

Reading nonfiction is a departure from my usually thrillers & mysteries. When I saw that Sebastian Junger was the author, I couldn’t pass it up. Junger has had a distinguished career as a reporter and author. His work has taken him around the globe and into many hotspots. But his closest brush with death was on a quiet day at home in rural New England. Junger had been experiencing abdominal pain on and off for several months when he was incapacitated by excruciating pain. When he arrives at the hospital, his life begins to slip away. Junger sees his deceased father in the room. His father invites Junger to join him and reassures Junger that “It’s okay. There’s nothing to be scared of. I’ll take care of you.” Junger wakes up the next day to learn that he had a ruptured aneurysm and he shouldn’t have survived. Junger details the extraordinary measures all members of his care team took to save his life - from the ambulance crew to all the nurses and doctors who treated him. Junger’s gratitude and admiration for their professionalism, expertise, and dedication is palpable. 

Junger was shocked it was his father he saw during his near death experience. He believed it would have been totally out of character for his father, a man of science and not religious, to be there to escort his son from life to death. Seeing his father when he was so close to death spurred Junger to take a deep dive into what happens after we die. He examines other people’s near death experiences and looks at the physics of reality as he grapples with trying to understand the unknowable. 

Junger narrates this emotional and intriguing audiobook. I found listening this story in the author’s own voice all the more impactful. It is a fascinating and thought provoking journey. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

QOTD: do you know anyone who has had a near death experience? I don’t. 

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Monday, July 25, 2022

Book Tour-The Scandalous Hamiltons

 

Author: Bill Shaffer

Publisher: Kensington Publishing 

Year: 2022

🎊 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 🎊

Thank you @kensingtonpublishing @BetweentheChapters & @tlcbookktours for my #gifted copy & having me on this tour. Can’t wait to start this! It’s perfect for fans of The Gilded Age & Inventing Anna! It published tomorrow so be sure to grab a copy. 

𝐒𝐲𝐧𝐨𝐩𝐬𝐢𝐬: An Alexander Hamilton heir, a beautiful female con artist, an abandoned baby, & the shocking courtroom drama that was splashed across front pages from coast to coast—this is the fascinating true story behind one of the greatest scandals of the Gilded Age . . .

It’s a story almost too tawdry to be true—a con woman prostitute who met the descendant of a Founding Father in a brothel, duped him into marriage using an infant purchased from a baby farm, then went to prison for stabbing the couple’s baby nurse—all while in a common-law marriage with another man. The scandal surrounding Evangeline and Robert Ray Hamilton, though little known today, was one of the sensations of the Gilded Age, a sordid, gripping tale involving bigamy, bribery, sex, and violence.

When the salacious Hamilton story emerged in during Eva’s trial for the August 1889 stabbing, it commanded unprecedented national and international newspaper coverage thanks to the telegraph and the recently founded Associated Press. For the New York dailies, eager to capture readers through provocative headlines, Ray and Eva were a godsend.

As lurid details emerged, the public’s fascination grew—how did a man of Hamilton’s stature become entangled with such an adventuress? Nellie Bly, the world-famous investigative reporter, finagled an exclusive interview with Eva after her conviction. Hamilton’s death under mysterious circumstances, a year after the stabbing, added to the intrigue.

Through personal correspondence, court records, and sensational newspaper accounts, The Scandalous Hamiltons explores not only the full, riveting saga of ill-fated Ray and Eva, but the rise of tabloid journalism and celebrity in a story that is both a fascinating slice of pop culture history and a timeless tale of ambition, greed, and obsession. 

QOTD: what are you reading this week? 

I’m reading Lessons in Chemistry and loving it.

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Friday, February 4, 2022

Audience-ology

 

Author: Kevin Goetz

Narrator: Kevin Goetz

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio

Year: 2021

🎧𝗔𝘂𝗱𝗶𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗥𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄🎧

Thank you @simon.audio for the #giftedbook. 

“𝑰𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒌𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒓, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒅𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒑𝒕 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚.” - 𝑲𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏 𝑮𝒐𝒆𝒕𝒛

Kevin Goetz has made a career out of audience testing Hollywood movies. He works with studios to screen rough cuts of prereleases movies to an audience. He then questions the audience to get their honest opinions of the film to help filmmakers and producers make any needed tweaks to the movie. The audience feedback he elicits can help an average film become the next blockbuster. 

This is a fascinating look at behind the scenes at the business of movie making. Goetz has lots of stories about some of the biggest and best loved movies. He’s not out to spill the tea on any movie, director, or star. Reading this book, you can tell he’s very much a movie fan. He wants his work to help make a movie better. Goetz narrates the audiobook and his passion and enthusiasm for his work is palpable. 

Both big time movie buffs and causal fans will be entertained with Goetz’s stories and insights into an audience’s reaction to a movie. I really enjoyed this engaging and entertaining look at a little-known aspect of movie making. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

QOTD: what’s your favorite movie? 

#audienceology #kevingoetz #movies #testaudience #hollywood #moviemaking #simonaudio #audiobook #audiobookreview #audiobookstagram #bookrecommendations #audiobookrecommendation #booknerd #bookworm #alwaysreading #bibliophilelife #nonfiction


Tuesday, December 21, 2021

The Year of Living Danishly

 

Author: Helen Russell

Publisher: Icon Books

Year: 2015

This was definitely a bookstagram make me read it book. I saw someone’s review of The Year of Living Danishly here on booksta and thought it looked interesting. 

Journalist Helen Russell moved from London to rural Denmark when her husband landed his dream job at LEGO. Helen was surprised to learn that statistics showed Denmark is the happiest country in the world. The Danes are famous for hygge- the feeling of coziness, comfort, well being, and contentment. Helen gave herself a year to discover what makes the Danes so happy and to see if some of that happiness and contentment could rub off on her. 

Helen looked at the Danish educational system, jobs, food, interior design, hobbies, employment, healthcare, and taxes. Danes pay some of the highest taxes in the world, but the amount of social services they receive is astounding (compared to here in the US). 

There are some huge differences in the Danes attitude toward their jobs compared to the US. Their wages provide a high standard of living no matter what the job is. They don’t put in overtime and leave the office at a reasonable time every day, and they have a generous amount of vacation days. Their family leave and child care policies (for both mothers and fathers) frankly puts the US to shame. 

Of course, Denmark is not perfect. Sexism and misogyny can be found. And Russell points out that Denmark is dealing with racism after a rise in immigration over the past few years. 

Russell’s breezy and often humorous writing style made this a quick read. It’s fascinating to see how people in other countries think and live. Since it’s officially the first day of winter, it’s a good time for me to practice some hygge by lighting some candles, snuggling up in a blanket in front of the fire, and reading a book. I’ll skip the pickled herring though. 😀 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

QOTD: how do you practice hygge? 

My answer: tbh it’s been easier since I retired. More time to be with family, to walk with the dogs, to try a new recipe, to just be. 

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